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xx Euro Forum notes - 11-February-2018
« Thread started on: Feb 12th, 2018, 4:06pm »

attending:
Jarl Randolph - Moderator
Master Kazar
Master Bretval
Master Austin

karinda {GS}
riss{GS}
meral{Bretval}
sura{Austin}
naia{Frederick}
ayli{Dak}
tamara
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Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:34:25 pm CST
I have two topics, similar in some ways, I will weave them into one topic, a few moments

ayli{Dak} ~chain sister to libi~ 13:35:07 pm CST
turns attention to Jarl Randolph

ruby~{Randolph}~t 13:35:20 pm CST
poises writing stick to finely milled rence parchment - listens intently

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:35:45 pm CST
We all know the rules by now, just a reminder to keep greetings in whispers

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:36:08 pm CST
greetings riss, good timing

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:37:49 pm CST
Topic 1:

How is one chosen to become an advisor to the council?
What qualities does a slave like to see in a Captain and/or Advisor

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:40:00 pm CST
We have had a similar to the first part recently. Essentially the Captains invite a Master to become and Advisor - presumably they believe that e has something worthy to contribute to the Home

Kazar~infamous pirate.~{sei} 13:40:54 pm CST
Would guess the. Ouncik sees something in a free that would make him a advisor and eventually a Captain

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:41:49 pm CST
looks at the girls to comment on the second part of the topic

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 13:41:59 pm CST
The Council chooses new advisor... by unanimous vote

~naia {Frederick} 13:43:29 pm CST
what naia likes to see in a Captain/Advisor... is someone who puts the homes best interests to the forefront... He protects the home and it's people... Free and slave alike.. when need be... doesn't shy away from confrontation if it comes calling....

to her it's also someone who doesn't have to fluff up their own feathers about what they do for the home... they simply do it and let their action stand on their own merit.... sometime the silent ones speak the loudest

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:43:31 pm CST
Well the Free seem to have answered their part !!!!!

ruby~{Randolph}~t 13:44:01 pm CST
in rubys opinion, the Council seeks a Free that does not fly off the handle with quick decisions..One that is strong to Their honorable convictions..taking time to think through all the ramifications of a ruling

tamara 13:45:14 pm CST
-listens quietly-

ruby~{Randolph}~t 13:46:07 pm CST
kudos
very well spoken naia

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:46:11 pm CST
Tends to agree with both comments. Easier said than done I suppose

ayli{Dak} ~chain sister to libi~ 13:46:16 pm CST
listens quietly

Kazar~infamous pirate.~{sei} 13:47:18 pm CST
Well spoken naia

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 13:47:33 pm CST
*grin* Well it all is in the website info, Randolph

Kazar~infamous pirate.~{sei} 13:47:44 pm CST
Also gemstone

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:48:23 pm CST
lol, Bretval, that was the easy part.

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:49:31 pm CST
Any other comments??

ruby~{Randolph}~t 13:51:17 pm CST
sometimes Members think the Council is slow..however much thought must be granted..its best to get it right the first time..and not have to unravel a faulty decision

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 13:53:01 pm CST
Yes well losing temper can be good on occasion... can push things to be done

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:53:14 pm CST
agrees ruby, during the time I have been in GS, 5 years now, I have always thought the decisions made were generally good ones

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:53:52 pm CST
It can liven things up Bretval !!!!!

sura{Austin} 13:54:52 pm CST
-walks in quietly, settles over the furs, flashing a smile of silent greeting to Aall-

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:56:08 pm CST
For sura

Topic 1:

How is one chosen to become an advisor to the council?
What qualities does a slave like to see in a Captain and/or Advisor

sura{Austin} 13:56:15 pm CST
greetings my trainer -hugs with excited delight-

Kazar~infamous pirate.~{sei} 13:56:55 pm CST
Bretval. Always maintain ones kool at all times

ruby~{Randolph}~t 13:56:55 pm CST
smiles to sura

ruby~{Randolph}~t 13:58:09 pm CST
agrees Master Kazar
a Master must be able to Masters Himself, before He can Master anything else

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 13:58:30 pm CST
Any other comments on this topic??

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 13:59:42 pm CST
*skipping back* I agree, naia... and sometimes a quick word is enough to start the ball rolling

Kazar~infamous pirate.~{sei} 14:00:13 pm CST
Gemstone. Yep exactly

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:02:36 pm CST
Any other comments??

Otherwise we will move on

ayli{Dak} ~chain sister to libi~ 14:03:14 pm CST
none from this mere one Jarl

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 14:03:27 pm CST
Most of the time I agree, Kazar... but at times it it is ahe nonly way to get necessary changes done

Kazar~infamous pirate.~{sei} 14:03:35 pm CST
Nope am good

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:03:37 pm CST
That is a difficult one to summarise but thinks the comments seem agreed by a/all

Kazar~infamous pirate.~{sei} 14:04:10 pm CST

Bretval. I do it with a smile.

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:04:40 pm CST
Gor is not a democracy..it is harsh brutal world

a girl has nothing else my Jarl

sura{Austin} 14:05:29 pm CST
none from sura either

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:06:04 pm CST
Topic 2:

How can guests be best welcomed into O/our Home, particularly if they come across as aggressive or rude.

tamara 14:08:10 pm CST
-quiet breath, listening-

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 14:08:55 pm CST
A private word... to begin... then see

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:09:07 pm CST
It is a while since I have seen this, but understand something along these lines happened recently

sura{Austin} 14:09:23 pm CST
this one thinks the rudeness sometimes originates from ignorance... perhaps a chance for them to get accustomed to the rules of our home, especially by observing other role models is a good way... however if the attitude roots in malicious intents or traits ... it rarely works as in visitors intentionally trying to cause trouble.

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:09:25 pm CST
for a slave there is no allowance, if a Free is rude or disruptive

a slave must always be found obedient and pleasing, or things could become quite ugly

Kazar~infamous pirate.~{sei} 14:09:41 pm CST
Greet them welcome them to our home If one is rude diesn5 understand the rules
Explain them.
Their is a time not to be nice

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 14:09:48 pm CST
But a polite greeting first

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:10:12 pm CST
agrees Bretval, some simply dont understand O/our ways

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:11:33 pm CST
It differs between Master and slave - a Master can come on heavy, if necessary, a slave needs to exercise much more caution

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:12:59 pm CST
It is easier for the more experienced slave to cope with

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 14:13:37 pm CST
and slaves have their restrictions to take into account

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:14:10 pm CST
indeed sura
the lack of knowledge of the Gorean world can be the culprit..often a Free will advise to listen..however thats not a slaves right, to forecast how a Free should behave

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:14:59 pm CST
for mea

Topic 2:

How can guests be best welcomed into O/our Home, particularly if they come across as aggressive or rude.

sura{Austin} 14:15:28 pm CST
nods in agreement to rubyís words.. very true.

Austin - Scholar- {sura} 14:18:29 pm CST
Quietly walks in

meral{Bretval} 14:19:04 pm CST
Thank You Jarl

by keeping patience mea thinks and understand not Aall know Gor

sura{Austin} 14:19:52 pm CST
for sura serving with respect, obidience and sensuality within the restrictions of her Master is the only way she knows to honor her home and welcome the visitors. shall any conflicts arise for example according to her restrictions she has clear instructions what to do... c/p the event, report to her Master, etc.

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:20:07 pm CST
winks to mea...the "P" word

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:21:29 pm CST
indeed sura..the chain of command..for a personally owned slave..first and foremost

meral{Bretval} 14:21:49 pm CST
~giggles hearing ruby~

sura{Austin} 14:22:44 pm CST
In silence crawls to His feet and kneels-

tamara 14:22:50 pm CST
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xx Re: Euro Forum notes - 11-February-2018
« Reply #1 on: Feb 12th, 2018, 4:26pm »

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:23:57 pm CST
Any other comments on this topic??

Austin - Scholar- {sura} 14:24:12 pm CST
That is really a great and tough topic.. last night we had an incident with a Free who has come in and harassed before.. so last night I informed the Free of sura's restrictions and When sura came into th Tavern and she washed to greet.. I gave permission for her only to greet sisters and Pledge.. That way I set the standard for the Free to not bother my girl sura.. I didn't like that but his prior behavior dictated that I do that

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:25:42 pm CST
An interesting way of handling it Austin

karinda {GS} 14:25:50 pm CST
Sadly enters quite late for Euro forum

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:26:03 pm CST
for karinda

Topic 2:

How can guests be best welcomed into O/our Home, particularly if they come across as aggressive or rude.

Austin - Scholar- {sura} 14:26:08 pm CST
Also as soon as tamara came into the Tavern.. both MO1 and I beckoned her to us.. so the Free didn't have a chance to harass the girl.. we are here to protect our own.. and I think all Pledges are supportive and feel a responsibility to protect our girls

Austin - Scholar- {sura} 14:27:06 pm CST
I thought I would send a message to the Free that he was not to be invited to greet sura.. and ask I set boundaries for him and to protect sura at the same time

tamara 14:28:48 pm CST
-murmured-

only went to the taVern because i was told to

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 14:29:12 pm CST
That was pretty good way to handle it, Austin...
I always consider the Ignore button as as a last choice... but have used it in the last

Austin - Scholar- {sura} 14:29:27 pm CST
I could have ben more aggressive but I was saving those cards close to my chest for late if I need to use them

karinda {GS} 14:30:04 pm CST
Hmmm....girl feels the Free of GS w ould take responsibility of correcting and guiding an aggressive Visitor. If that visitor shows remorse abd acts accordingly after...they should be treated like any other Free....slaves srrving...Free visiting with them. We should always try to make visitors feel welcome unless they act out.

Austin - Scholar- {sura} 14:30:06 pm CST
tamara you did well I was proud of the girl

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:30:11 pm CST
It does depend on the experience of the slaves as to whether she can handle difficult situations. I recall seeing a slave, aurora, handle a very difficult Free with good humour but firmness - but she had been around the block many times.

sura{Austin} 14:30:58 pm CST
nods to my Masterís word-

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:31:12 pm CST
if a Master places an unruly Free on ignore, then the Free has no way of knowing the disruptive behavior

Austin - Scholar- {sura} 14:31:50 pm CST
pea and naia were excellent in handling the Free they were frank but respectful

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:34:11 pm CST
yes my Jarl...second girl aurora was rubys trainer, she taught ruby well, how to handle such situations

Austin - Scholar- {sura} 14:34:12 pm CST
Thank you both Bretval and Randolph on your feed back.. It is easy to be a bull in a china shop..but to set a tone such as setting boundaries.. it takes finessing ... hopping the Free will listen and learn.. that His behavior is not welcomed in our Home

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:34:24 pm CST
Any other comments on this topic??

sura{Austin} 14:34:35 pm CST
she must also thank swtpea as she joined in the tavern and offered to service the Free instead of me and lani... as mentioned the experience helps with the difficult situations.

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 14:35:03 pm CST
That is why it is a last choice, ruby

meral{Bretval} 14:35:38 pm CST
nothing from mea thank You Jarl

Austin - Scholar- {sura} 14:36:13 pm CST
No other comment Randolph

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:36:20 pm CST
gems cast low
yes, Master Bretval

karinda {GS} 14:37:00 pm CST
No other comments from a mere paga slave

sura{Austin} 14:37:31 pm CST
none from sura, thank You Jarl.

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 14:38:31 pm CST
nothing more

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:38:35 pm CST
nothing more from a girl, thank You, my Master

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:41:20 pm CST
As a summary:

Quiet words from the Free can help, particularly if the person is inexperienced. Maybe harsher if he becomes difficult.

slaves should always be polite, pleasing and obedient, within their restrictions.

Free would be expected to protect a slave if things become abusive.

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:41:47 pm CST
and on that note I close EForum for this week

Jarl Randolph - GS Advisor - Owner of ruby~ 14:42:28 pm CST
Thanks to all for attending and contributing as well as to putting forward the interesting topics

karinda {GS} 14:42:49 pm CST
Thank You for leading Jarl Randolph

Thanks ruby for scribing

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:42:52 pm CST
thank You my Master, for leading ..kisses tenderly

Austin - Scholar- {sura} 14:43:22 pm CST
Thank you Randolph for leading..

thank you ruby for scribing

sura{Austin} 14:43:39 pm CST
Thank you Jarl Randolph for leading an excellent Forum.

thank you ruby for scribing -kisses-

Bretval {meral}: Scholar~ Warrior~Merchant 14:44:03 pm CST
An interesting Forum Randolph ... thanks for leading it
Thanks for scribing ruby

meral{Bretval} 14:44:12 pm CST
Thank You Jarl for leading

thank you ruby for scribing

karinda {GS} 14:45:15 pm CST
Twitches before she rises....

ruby~{Randolph}~t 14:46:33 pm CST
rolls up the scribe safely tucking it under her breast..as always a privilege to serve my Jarls Home
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